- Chaotic systems, that have a small Lyapunov exponent, do not obey the common random matrix theory predictions within a wide" weak quantum chaos" regime. This leads to a novel prediction for the rate of heating for cold atoms in optical billiards with vibrating walls. The Hamiltonian matrix of the driven system does not look like one from a Gaussian ensemble, but rather it is very sparse. This sparsity can be characterized by parameters s and gs that reflect the percentage of large elements, and their connectivity, respectively. For gs we use a resistor network calculation that has direct relation to the semilinear response characteristics of the system.